Hackers are the elite corps of computer designers and programmers. They like to see themselves as the wizards and warriors of tech. Designing software and inventing algorithms can involve bravura intellection, and tinkering with them is as much fun as fiddling with engines. Hackers have their own culture, their own language. And in the off-hours, they can turn their ingenuity to sparring with enemies on the Nets, or to the midnight stroll through systems you should not be able to enter, were you not so very clever. Dark-side hackers, or crackers, slip into systems for the smash-and-grab, but most hackers are in it for the virtuoso ingress.
In few line the real hacker is somone who
1.enjoys exploring the details of programmable systems and how to stretch their capabilities, as opposed to most users, who prefer to learn only the minimum necessary.
2.programs enthusiastically (even obsessively) or who enjoys programming rather than just theorizing about programming.
3.is good at programming quickly.
4.is an expert at a particular program, or one who frequently does work using it or on it; as in `a Unix hacker'.
5.is an expert or enthusiast of any kind. One might be an astronomy hacker, for example.
6.enjoys the intellectual challenge of creatively overcoming or circumventing limitations.
7. 1. is a malicious meddler who tries to discover sensitive information by poking around. Hence `password hacker', `network hacker'. The correct term for this sense is cracker.
The guys who "Hack" you as you say are cracker, try to remember it, and stop telling, hacker when somnoe got "hacked" cracker are there to get defense down, like defense on software, these one are cracker....... but take care, Most of the cracker are in The Underground Community, maybe the problem of "hacks" will stop there, or they will come back harder. Dont mess with them.