lol... i realize its pointless to post but wth.
Game Masters and all staff alike, should act accordingly to how you see fit yes, but its free servers not a business, i never got the whole lets order people around, staff should be hired by personal knowledge/level of trust & friendship, i dont see why you would order a friend around like he/she was your own personal bitch, my staff act just fine, im laid back, i dont force rules on them, i give them basic staff golden rules such as no items for players and such.
My staff follow what they think i would approve of because i show them respect and trust, yes sometimes they do stuff i dont like and i give them a punishment fit for the crime (but its an online game woop de shit about punishment) all in all, a game is meant for fun, if you feel the need to order people get stressed when they dont listen or mad when they are out of line, you shouldnt be in that position.
i hear all the time people say "running a free server is like running a business" nothing like it, most shards hire more staff than they have players which i guess if they see that as a business would equal out to having more employees to pay than you have customers which would decline heavily in your profit depending on how big your business is.
in short, staff should have a way to act yes, but it shouldnt be enforced be respectful and you shall be respected.