Agree to disagree Courageous and Yiffi, and leave it at that.
I really agree with this statement. The thread got stupid a day or so ago and I really wish I hadn't felt compelled to answer after it got to spelling/typo issues. When a thread hits that point it's hopeless. And there is little worth debating afterwards.
Courageous I won't be responding to your flames, but i will say this:
"Hey, whatever works for you. In love we are not all looking for the same thing. But thank god (if you believe in that ) for that. We both found someone that can make us happy in love and life. Congrats to you for having someone, because sometimes that means everything."
I apologize to the forums in general for going on the fools errand with this one.