Your dream date....

[shrundowr]

I would still think other girls were hot, but I wouldn't fantasize about them or anything.

 

[Johabius]

Appreciating the beauty of another human being is not wrong.

 

[shrundowr]

Appreciating the beauty of another human being is not wrong.

hehe but you wouldn't appreciate a dude that way... would you?

 

[Radwen]

If angelina became a dude, you would.

 

[shrundowr]

If angelina became a dude, you would.

I'd blow her/him in a minute if she had a sex change.

 

[Radwen]

So I was right.
You are not hetero, nor are you gay. You are Angelinasexual.

 

[kmwill23]

Wow, hot topic =)

If by dream date you really mean perfect date, I can honestly say they don't exist for me! My tastes have far too many contradictions and near-impossibilities.

 

[Radwen]

People ask for so much. All I ask for is for some decent looking quiet girl to walk with me or sit in a tree, on a rock on a mountain.
Very possible .. yet not happening .

 

[Storm33229]

Be careful lumping every person into such a neat little package. Some of us don't fit that mold. Last time I checked I was human, and a fully qualified woman. I don't look at porn, have zero interest in it. I think it's an industry that does nothing worthwhile and hurts far too many people to be anything I'd ever support. And yes, for the record I DO in fact have an "on/off" switch. It's called self-control. I've never been one to gawk at males. I think that's an exercise in objectifying another human being. And I find the concept of it repugnant. When I've been in a relationship with someone, I did not think about anyone else in any sort of sexual fashion, not even to just think they were *hot*. This was not a particularly moral stand. To me it was just logical. After all, I entered into the commitment fully aware of what I was giving up and gaining. If I'd wanted to be single (and only have my own feelings to consider) I'd have stayed that way. That's called freedom of choice.

If you saw two handsome men. And you dated one of the men, would you not still think the other was a handsome man? Self control should be the thing restraining you from cheating. But as far as denying what you know is true is...pointless? Attraction is constant, it does not go away. I'm not saying that you will "gawk" over him, but simply acknowledge the fact that he is a good looking man.

My point to you is(and I do like this convo.) that you should use self control; that is something I highly respect. I would not ask anyone to cheat on anyone; that, in my opinion, would be wrong. But what I am saying is, there is nothing wrong to emotionally ackowledge another man/woman's beauty/handsomness. Thinking thoughts beyond acknowledgement is an entirely different thing, that is lust. But to deny that a red balloon is a red balloon would be crazy.

 

[Johabius]

hehe but you wouldn't appreciate a dude that way... would you?

It depends. There are many attractive men.

 

[HellRazor]

But would you have sex with them?

 

[Johabius]

No, and I won't have sex with any other women that I find attractive either, so that is a moot point. I'm married, and I take my wedding vows very seriously.

 

[HellRazor]

But what if you weren't married?

 

[Johabius]

Even if I wasn't married, I would still not be having sex with men. My door does not swing that way. There is a difference between appreciating beauty and wanting to screw everything that moves

 

[Radwen]

Even if I wasn't married, I would still not be having sex with men. My door does not swing that way. There is a difference between appreciating beauty and wanting to screw everything that moves

I agree with Johab.
I wouldn't mind being gay. But I'm not.
Some men look good, but it doesn't make me want to have sex with them.
Women on the other hand do.

 

[Puron1794]

Angelina Jolie is beyond hot.
I'd definately make out with her, but I wouldn't have sex with her (she lacks the preferred "equipment"). Does that make me 1/2 lesbian? Or maybe just a 1/4 lesbian since she's the only female I've ever considered make-out material.

So far as my dream date...I still don't know...I'll come up with an answer for that sooner or later.

 

[HellRazor]

Angelina Jolie is beyond hot.
I'd definately make out with her, but I wouldn't have sex with her (she lacks the preferred "equipment"). Does that make me 1/2 lesbian? Or maybe just a 1/4 lesbian since she's the only female I've ever considered make-out material.

Maybe you're just picky.

So far as my dream date...I still don't know...I'll come up with an answer for that sooner or later.

Just say "HellRazor". It will be good for my ego.

 

[Radwen]

Hellrazor, you are my dream date.

 

[HellRazor]

Will you wear Wonder Woman underwear for me?

 

[Radwen]

I'm already wearing them.